As I say in the WHAT'S WUZZLE area - a Wuzzle is a combination of two dissimilar animals. There are a number of ways to interpret this with me. My public and private lives show me in different ways, and yet are  linked together.  I am not an "in your face" gay - but out when I need to be.  That is not to say that I cannot be bold and "color outside the lines".  I don't think I could be accused of being shy.  The concept of "integration" provides a day-to-day subtle message that I am not that different...... as Country singer Collin Raye puts it:

...look behind your own soul and the person that you'll see
Just might remind you of me.
I laugh, I love, I hope, I try
I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry
And I know you do the same things too
So  we're really not that different, me and you
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